How to say sorry by Bobblelover

"Hard, but well worth it."

How I did it:

    I treated him horribly and felt so bad. I guess the reason for my apology was not entirely selfless but it needed to be done. I wanted to meet up and talk in person but I couldn't trust myself to say what I wanted to say and to express it in the way I meant to, so I decided to do it via a facebook message.

    I am really glad I did it, and feel so much better, and hopefully he does too.

    Lessons & tips:

    1. Think about what you really want to apologies for.
    2. Write out a list of what you want to say
    3. Choose your method: in person, over the phone, by text/email/letter. 
    4. Pick the right time (in the middle of a football game is not the right time)
    5. Let it all out

    Resources:

    • Facebook
    • Courage


     

    Jun 26, 02:00PM PDT | 1 comment | 2 cheers


    Comments:

    amisu is ending 2009 in a wonderful place

    Well done – that took a lot of courage

    Jun 26, 02:09PM PDT | Respond to this


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