How I did it: This was the hardest thing to do in my entire life. I loved my husband. Even though we were both only 18 I truly loved him. Through our whole relationship, he was abusive, mentally and physically, only I didn't see it because my mind was so clouded by his constant "affections and declarations of love". He had me so brainwashed I turned my back on my family, God, and myself. But one day after I couldn't cover up the black eye, I left. It's been one year. After such a long time of hurt and sorrow, I stopped and thought of myself. I'm in school, I have a great job, and I realized, I am someone. I looked in the mirror and really looked and who I saw was a new woman. One who matters. And from now on I know in my heart its going to be ok because I deserve so much better. And its coming :)

Lessons & tips: A lesson to all of you girls out there: just because someone texts or calls you a thousand times a day just to say he loves you, doesn't make it true. These are characteristic signs of controlling partners. Their real reason is to check where you are and what you are doing. Also to hear from you how much you love them so they are able to confirm that you are their property. There is such a thing as someone to protect and love you, and you can express your love right back. just watch out for those obsessive signs.

Resources: My church, family, and friends were my most valuable resources for help.

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Jun 30, 09:06PM PDT | 4 comments | 8 cheers