How to get blocked by Uncle Enore


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Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

CHEERS to you both

for speaking your mind!

I'm trying to comment

on Roxi’s goal, but it won’t let me. Maybe she’s blocked me?

Whatever happended to the freedom of speech he always harps on about?

Here’s an interesting quote: -

“If you think like WE do…say the things WE say are alright…then you have complete freedom of speech. If not, we’re gonna find ways of punishing you and shutting you up.

Can you guess who said it? He forgot to add “or block you”.

Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

I may not like, or agree with, a lot of the things he says

but I respect his right to say them. I don’t understand why he can’t respect other’s rights to disagree with him and voice those disagreements. If someone makes a post about an issue, it seems to me they’re opening the topic up for discussion – pros and cons.

I might add, while I’m here and on the subject, that I don’t hate Uncle Enore. I hate his bigotry. He has a lot of great qualities which I have seen displayed on this site, including a very generous heart towards some people. I interact with him occasionally on some threads. But NOT on any thread where he is exhibiting bigotry or racism – unless I feel he is being abusive towards someone on their thread. I believe I’ve made my viewpoint known often enough that he knows how I feel.

Sorry, Flirt

I wasn’t trying to solicit an opinion from you, I was trying to post my comment on Roxi’s thread, although it wouldn’t let me at first.

In any case, I thank you.

Oh, Flirt.

This statement was so, so diplomatic and kind to this man. I’m shocked he blocked you, as a result.

Personally, I can’t separate Enore’s hatred from the rest of his being, His generosity towards those he considers to be like him doesn’t mitigate, in my mind, his meanness towards those he resents. However, I admire that you’re evidently capable of seeing a good side to anyone. It’s too bad that some people are as intent on seeing evil in others as you are in seeing goodness.

Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

You're right, Roxi

it doesn’t mitigate it. It isn’t always easy for me to separate “bad” and “good” actions. In fact, it’s often something I have a problem doing. I’m not sure why I am able to (at least somewhat) it in this case. It’s something I try to do, because I feel as if it’s my calling as a Christian. However, I completely understand that other people can’t or won’t. I believe God talks to people in different ways.

I, too, miss Jiana and Saara. I remember one particularly ugly thread where a couple of people were “attacking” Muslims on Jiana’s thread. I try to stay out of most of these discussions, for various reasons (including the fact that I’m not very good at debating with clear, logical, points), but episodes like that one I jump in feet first. That’s not what this site is about, and it hurts us all whenever and wherever it happens.

Thank you for speaking out.

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Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

P.S.

I guess you’ll know if Roxi’s blocked you, if you find yourself sleeping on the couch tonight. ;-)

Men are funny.

The way they sometimes aren’t even aware when they’re being “blocked.”

Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

Men ARE funny!

;-)

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Whatever happened

to the freedom of speech he so loves to harp on about?

Here’s an interesting quote: -

“If you think like WE do…say the things WE say are alright…then you have complete freedom of speech. If not, we’re gonna find ways of punishing you and shutting you up”.

Any ideas who it was? He forgot to add “or block you”.

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Is there a membership fee?

Although is it a good thing that we “assholes” and “bitches” are being rounded up into one place?

It does make it easier to gas or nuke us – I’m just saying.

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BTW

Here’s a quick primer on just what constitutes name-calling, for anyone who needs it (you know who you are):

When I call someone an “insipid, little lapdog,” the first two words are called adjectives, and the last one is a metaphor. If I replace the last word with a word that’s considered to be insulting but has no real descriptive value (i.e. a “name”), such as a noun referring to a random barn animal (let’s say “cow,” for example) or a part of the female anatomy (take another monosyllabic word that begins with c), then THAT is name-calling. Got it?

Oh my. I really wish I had some cheers.

You naughty, little minx. (That’s not name-calling, right?)

You bloody n@m#-c@!!#r!

Hey, does it count as name-calling when someone calls you the n-c word?

I do feel honoured, I must say.

Thanks so much for all you’ve written, and for the heartfelt welcome! It seems we’re in very good company, indeed.

I became aware of Enore’s anti-muslim rants, long ago, but didn’t want to give him the satisfaction of having a row with a middle easterner, so I kept my silence, until now. He seems to thrive on attention, and I thought the worst thing that could happen to him would be to be ignored. I naively thought everyone else would do the same, as soon as they discovered his ugly underbelly (not that it’s so well-hidden to be rightfully called an underbelly). I even blocked him, back in the day, thinking it meant I wouldn’t see his posts (discovering otherwise was quite the bummer, as you can imagine).

I have sometimes wondered what the hell could have happened to make this man so hateful, and I’ve drawn the same conclusion you have. Most people have something beyond themselves to give their lives meaning. All he has is part of himself: his child, his girlfriend, his union. He’s so resentful towards anyone with a greater purpose that he (as my grandmother would say) pisses all over the things that other people hold sacred. He did that with John Lee’s goal about feeding the needy, posting vulgarity in the middle of a noble effort. He also appeared in a Nazi uniform, somewhere else, calling for the return of gas chambers. Now, he’s telling people that they have no right to care about Iran unless they’re both citizens and residents. It seems he expects us all to apologize for caring about people beyond ourselves.

Now that you’ve found Cookie’s and my contributions to Enore’s thread, on our own feeds, you can see for yourself that what we wrote isn’t accurately portrayed by Enore and “Artie’s” referrals to our posts (i.e. her diatribe about freedom of speech, and their accusations of “name-calling”). You’ll note they seem to think name-calling includes the application of unflattering (yet accurate) descriptions to people they like. They certainly can’t rightfully use the “you struck first” argument with me, anyhow. Ethnically, I am not only Persian, but a Turk and a Jew. I am politically liberal. I am Catholic. I am Canadian. Enore had thrown a thousand filthy names my way before I uttered a single word in reply.

I did not write to his thread to defend myself (which is the reason I attacked him only on muslim-bashing grounds); I have a proud heritage that defends itself. I also didn’t write to defend my muslim family members or my muslim friends who aren’t on 43 Things, as they really couldn’t give a rat’s ass what this nobody thinks of them. I wrote only for Jiana and Saara. It comes far too late, and I’m ashamed and very sorry for that, but I wanted to defend them, in a way, at last. They made this site a better place. We all lost something, when they left, and we only have ourselves to blame for it. I’m so very sorry that I was so foolish to think that we could all tacitly agree to ignore this spiteful, old man, and make him disappear. The only way to fight him and his ilk is to really fight them, it seems.

Anyhow, it’s great to meet you, Revenge of Nude Freedom. You’re the sort of friend I’d want in my corner, and, hey, I can thank Enore for arranging it so that we could meet! Thanks, Enore!

Damn, I'm out of cheers.

I’m proud to be your husband.

I've got no cheers, either.

But I got you, babe. And I’m really lucky for that and pretty damned proud to be your wife, too.

Flirt is back in the 21st century - computer wise!!! is doing what she can to help the Reading, Kansas tornado victims

For Roxi and Cookie

some classic Sonny and Cher

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SimplyStacey is focusing on writing!

you two are awesome

WHY am I not subscribed to you?

Remedying that…NOW!

You too, RONF. I don’t want to miss any block party fun.

I have found faith again in 43 Things.

This site will always be very special to me, but it had become a place that I had found myself with less and less interest in visiting. A lot of the people whom I considered friends hardly used the site anymore, and many more had simply deleted their accounts and moved on.

I’ve seen recently that there are still people here, new and old, that I would like to interact with, learn from, and eventually call friend (if not already).

You are one of those new people and I subcribed to you recently, too, because you’re pretty awesome yourself.

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I hear you.

One thing I will say in Enore’s defense is that in, my opinion, he is not a racist. Sure, sometimes he uses inappropriate avatars, but I don’t think he has any problem with the colour of one’s skin.

I agree, however, that most of the people here are positive, as you would expect from a site dedicated to improving ourselves and the world around us.

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LL is EXCITED! Matty got his visa!!

Not sure I agree with you entirely.

Regarding your first paragraph, that is. :-)

Just because someone’s intolerance or discrimination isn’t based on the colour of another’s skin, doesn’t mean that they’re not racist.

The UN doesn’t appear to make any distinction between racial and ethnic discrimination. Therefore, if a person makes discriminatory remarks against an entire group of people based upon race or ethnicity (e.g., if I say “Americans”, thereby implying ‘all Americans’), that’s racism. Add religious discrimination/prejudice/intolerance (whichever fits best) to the pot, and there we have a recipe for something with a decidedly nasty aftertaste.

Totally with you on your second paragraph, though.

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LGS

I never liked

being left out of anything…I want to join the club.

Hi Cookie and Roxi, nice to meet you. If I had any cheers I’d be bombing you both like crazy.

Nudey, get my kool-aid and cookies ready, ‘cos I’m on my way ;-)
x

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Nice to meet you too, Cessie.

Membership to the club is somewhat exclusive, but seemingly easy to obtain. Roxi and I didn’t even need to ask, and were ushered in with VIP tickets.

All you need to do is ignore Uncle Enore’s interpretation of free speech (the do as I say, not as I do version), and engage him in a knowledgable and contrary way on one of his hateful rants. Then hey presto, Bob’s your Uncle. And Enore isn’t.

LGS

Oh good...

...in that case I think we might already have a done deal!
x

Hey, Cessie...

...did you know that you’re from my home town?

LGS

Seriously?!

What a coincidence :-)

And you’re the second person on here to tell me that in two days…which is quite funny, considering I have the whole world to potentially be in contact with!

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I can’t believe this happened. I see Uncle Enore being blocked more than him blocking others. I imagine he knows that it is likely to happen when he so unpolishly spews up his mind.
I still see him like a porcupine that is soft on the inside, and a bratty child at heart, that indiscriminately pokes anyone around yet can at times retract his quills and show a soft side.

However him blocking you guys seems quite odd, and unfair.
I feel sorry he is willing to loose such a sweet couple of friends.
I don’t know what made him do that ( I read from new to old posts and just got here), however I think he could have self induced a thicker skin by now.

Hi, Kanard

Sorry, I haven’t been receiving notifications, so I’ve missed quite a few replies to this thread.

Uncle Enore and I have never been friends, so he’s not losing anything by blocking me. I would never be friends with a person who’s voiced such disgusting views about Muslims, anyhow.

I think he blocked us both because I remember something he’d thought everyone had forgotten. I’d been expecting him to defend it by calling it a joke (not that that would have excused anything, considering it would have been a really stupid, callous, unfunny joke), but instead he prefers to deny it, altogether.

I think you’re so soft and sweet that you’re more likely to see those attributes in others: not only him, but me, too. I’m not so sweet. War hardens people. I wasn’t afraid of Khomeini, and I’m not afraid of this little, old man, either.

I'm so sorry he was so aweful to you...

And I don’t know if I would have been so sweet if he went after me with personal attacks either.

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Thank you so much for posting Funtash, and sorry for the very late reply.

“Unfortunately,” I’ve been too busy to bother really saying much. He’s adding to his lies, now, saying that he’d posted against the government of Iran, rather than the people. Right. And that Cookie and I had misinterpreted his statements, as a result of our own bias. Well. Now that he’s already blocked me, once, though, I’m not going back to his thread. He’s shown that he can embarrass himself, without my having to point it out, so I’ll just leave him to it.

Yes, he does seem to be a beloved friend to those in his inner circle, and they do seem to think that it doesn’t matter how he treats others, as long as he’s good to them. They know the sort of friend they’re getting. I do think, however, that even the most selfish girl will eventually weary of a guy who takes her out and fawns all over her, if he’s rude to the waitstaff.

Thanks again for being so kind as to write. I appreciate very much that you’ve written to show that you understand and care.

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I wish I could agree.

But it seems he’s just found an excuse for being hateful, saying that Cookie and I reacted “emotionally” when he was “cerebral” – ‘cause his Islamaphobic vitriol is so rational, and pointing out historic fact and calling a bigot a bigot is such emotional nonsense.

He does have followers who let him blur statements that are crystal clear when read objectively, and buy that he was ranting about the government, although he was clearly targeting the entire country. There will always be, unfortunately, people who will believe only what’s convenient for them to believe, however untrue they know it to be. But even they know, on a deeper level, that they’re only kidding themselves.

So, you’re absolutely right, speaking out does make a difference. It certainly shows you the true character of the people around you. Your character, I already knew. Thank you for writing. I’m lucky to know you, even if it’s just in this “virtual” world. There’s a real person with real values and real compassion, behind your words, and I’m grateful you’re out in the “real” world, making it better.

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Kalibebti loves it all : )

He just thinks he's a brilliant, thought-provoking, hilarious nonconformist.

He’s not that unusual. At least, thankfully, he seems to be the only one of his particular type on this site.

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You totally nailed it.

And, you’re right, he’s not the first person to put down others in order to feel bigger, himself. Thankfully, as you’ve pointed out, people on this site tend to be out to improve themselves and this world, so their focus is much more likely to be positively-oriented. They’re also more likely to be happy; happy people don’t cultivate blanket hatreds.

Thanks for writing, Kalibebti. I appreciate every word everybody’s written, in support and/or comfort. You’ve all shown me that people do, indeed, care, when others are attacked unfairly – even when “others” are people they’ve never met.


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