How to get blocked by Uncle Enore


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CHEERS to you both

for speaking your mind!

I'm trying to comment

on Roxi’s goal, but it won’t let me. Maybe she’s blocked me?

Whatever happended to the freedom of speech he always harps on about?

Here’s an interesting quote: -

“If you think like WE do…say the things WE say are alright…then you have complete freedom of speech. If not, we’re gonna find ways of punishing you and shutting you up.

Can you guess who said it? He forgot to add “or block you”.

I may not like, or agree with, a lot of the things he says

but I respect his right to say them. I don’t understand why he can’t respect other’s rights to disagree with him and voice those disagreements. If someone makes a post about an issue, it seems to me they’re opening the topic up for discussion – pros and cons.

I might add, while I’m here and on the subject, that I don’t hate Uncle Enore. I hate his bigotry. He has a lot of great qualities which I have seen displayed on this site, including a very generous heart towards some people. I interact with him occasionally on some threads. But NOT on any thread where he is exhibiting bigotry or racism – unless I feel he is being abusive towards someone on their thread. I believe I’ve made my viewpoint known often enough that he knows how I feel.

Sorry, Flirt

I wasn’t trying to solicit an opinion from you, I was trying to post my comment on Roxi’s thread, although it wouldn’t let me at first.

In any case, I thank you.

Oh, Flirt.

This statement was so, so diplomatic and kind to this man. I’m shocked he blocked you, as a result.

Personally, I can’t separate Enore’s hatred from the rest of his being, His generosity towards those he considers to be like him doesn’t mitigate, in my mind, his meanness towards those he resents. However, I admire that you’re evidently capable of seeing a good side to anyone. It’s too bad that some people are as intent on seeing evil in others as you are in seeing goodness.

You're right, Roxi

it doesn’t mitigate it. It isn’t always easy for me to separate “bad” and “good” actions. In fact, it’s often something I have a problem doing. I’m not sure why I am able to (at least somewhat) it in this case. It’s something I try to do, because I feel as if it’s my calling as a Christian. However, I completely understand that other people can’t or won’t. I believe God talks to people in different ways.

I, too, miss Jiana and Saara. I remember one particularly ugly thread where a couple of people were “attacking” Muslims on Jiana’s thread. I try to stay out of most of these discussions, for various reasons (including the fact that I’m not very good at debating with clear, logical, points), but episodes like that one I jump in feet first. That’s not what this site is about, and it hurts us all whenever and wherever it happens.

Thank you for speaking out.

Funtash is feeling somewhat optimistic about life in general.

hmmm...

...finally caught up on this thread, late last night, and similar threads, and the thread that started this going.
WOW. Cheers to you all for standing your ground and arguing your points so very well.

I don’t understand U.E. The negativity and ugliness that spews out has at times made both my husband and I ready to wash our hands of the whole mess. But then some 43ers who are very dear to me have found such kindness in him. They have been supported online and otherwise, and have formed very close bonds with him.

I believe in free speech, but all to often I find myself shaking my head in disbelief and sadness at his words on the screen.

Again – CHEERS! – to you!
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P.S.

I guess you’ll know if Roxi’s blocked you, if you find yourself sleeping on the couch tonight. ;-)

Men are funny.

The way they sometimes aren’t even aware when they’re being “blocked.”

Men ARE funny!

;-)

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Whatever happened

to the freedom of speech he so loves to harp on about?

Here’s an interesting quote: -

“If you think like WE do…say the things WE say are alright…then you have complete freedom of speech. If not, we’re gonna find ways of punishing you and shutting you up”.

Any ideas who it was? He forgot to add “or block you”.

Yeah, 3 guesses, and the first 2 don't count.

:-)

OMG!

Yeah, I know it’s been well documented on here the mutual dislike of me and Enore.

And yeah, I do occasionally find myself agreeing with him, and he has admitted to the same.

But, truthfully at times he has been the epitome of the pot calling the kettle black.

He’s accused me of lying in the past, and for as much as I dislike him, I have never once told a lie about him. He has however on occasion either lied about me, or presented false accusations about me (his own, or from third parties.) as being facts, while have little or no knowledge of the situation.

He says I can’t stand anyone disagreeing with me, no not true, but he on occasion has had shit fits over other disageeing with him.

And for a guy who’s 60 plus years old, he has a glaring problem with maturity. He’s like this 10 year old, who just can never get enough attention at times.

I can kind of deal with him being a rebel, or a non-conformist, or an anti-establishment hippie, or call it what you will, and at times that can even be admirable, but what sickens me about the guy besides the very on purpose stereotypes he flings around, and the very on purpose contrary nature of the guy, and some of the other atrocious things he’s posted over the years, is his lack of having any anything sacred in his life. There’s just so little in life that he sanctifies or he has any sensitivity about, or that he holds as having any real value. I mean with the exception of his daughter and on another level Serenity, I’m really hard pressed to come up with anything at all that the guy values.

He has on occasion tried to paint me out as this argumentative villain, always looking for a fight. But by and large, most of the stinks I’ve had with anyone on this site, have been with him.

And he can bitch and whine all he wants about how negative I am in talking about him, but by comparison, he has posted far, far, far, far, far more negative stuff about me, than I ever have about him, on many occasions, it’s even come in the form of dissing me, just for the sake of dissing me, so he can continue with his drama king show pony act. And his comments aimed at me, have been far nastier than anything I’ve ever said to me, in some cases nastier than I’d ever say to anyone.

I’ve never understood why so many people like the guy. Heck, I’ve often thought 43T would be a better place without him in it.

And I get accused of not being willing to be friends with anyone who associates with him, and that’s simply not true. I have friends on here, that are friends of his as well, some of them for whatever reason think he’s just swell. I can tolerate that, but where I have no choice but to draw the line, is when people are practically tearing his pants off to kiss his ass. When that happens, then people just have to find themselves a new friend, because it ain’t gonna be me.

And you’re comments about Artemis, are spot on! I think her life would cease to exist, if she didn’t have Enore to fawn over.

So, you’ve got me curious about what made him block you? BTW, did they discontinue super cheers? Because that option isn’t showing for me today. Hell, I’d like to super cheer it, and give you the secret hand shake, and welcome you to the blocked by Enore club. AFAIK, and according to his claims, I’m the only other person he has blocked.

But, let me say, Welcome, Welcome!!!!! We have awesome kool-aid and cookies, and the water is warm, so feel free to dive in.

I must, must, must join you on this goal, if for no other reason, so the goal will have 2 people having accomplished it.

Is there a membership fee?

Although is it a good thing that we “assholes” and “bitches” are being rounded up into one place?

It does make it easier to gas or nuke us – I’m just saying.

LOL!

Just laughing at the ironic satire in that.

BTW

Here’s a quick primer on just what constitutes name-calling, for anyone who needs it (you know who you are):

When I call someone an “insipid, little lapdog,” the first two words are called adjectives, and the last one is a metaphor. If I replace the last word with a word that’s considered to be insulting but has no real descriptive value (i.e. a “name”), such as a noun referring to a random barn animal (let’s say “cow,” for example) or a part of the female anatomy (take another monosyllabic word that begins with c), then THAT is name-calling. Got it?

Oh my. I really wish I had some cheers.

You naughty, little minx. (That’s not name-calling, right?)

You bloody n@m#-c@!!#r!

Hey, does it count as name-calling when someone calls you the n-c word?

I do feel honoured, I must say.

Thanks so much for all you’ve written, and for the heartfelt welcome! It seems we’re in very good company, indeed.

I became aware of Enore’s anti-muslim rants, long ago, but didn’t want to give him the satisfaction of having a row with a middle easterner, so I kept my silence, until now. He seems to thrive on attention, and I thought the worst thing that could happen to him would be to be ignored. I naively thought everyone else would do the same, as soon as they discovered his ugly underbelly (not that it’s so well-hidden to be rightfully called an underbelly). I even blocked him, back in the day, thinking it meant I wouldn’t see his posts (discovering otherwise was quite the bummer, as you can imagine).

I have sometimes wondered what the hell could have happened to make this man so hateful, and I’ve drawn the same conclusion you have. Most people have something beyond themselves to give their lives meaning. All he has is part of himself: his child, his girlfriend, his union. He’s so resentful towards anyone with a greater purpose that he (as my grandmother would say) pisses all over the things that other people hold sacred. He did that with John Lee’s goal about feeding the needy, posting vulgarity in the middle of a noble effort. He also appeared in a Nazi uniform, somewhere else, calling for the return of gas chambers. Now, he’s telling people that they have no right to care about Iran unless they’re both citizens and residents. It seems he expects us all to apologize for caring about people beyond ourselves.

Now that you’ve found Cookie’s and my contributions to Enore’s thread, on our own feeds, you can see for yourself that what we wrote isn’t accurately portrayed by Enore and “Artie’s” referrals to our posts (i.e. her diatribe about freedom of speech, and their accusations of “name-calling”). You’ll note they seem to think name-calling includes the application of unflattering (yet accurate) descriptions to people they like. They certainly can’t rightfully use the “you struck first” argument with me, anyhow. Ethnically, I am not only Persian, but a Turk and a Jew. I am politically liberal. I am Catholic. I am Canadian. Enore had thrown a thousand filthy names my way before I uttered a single word in reply.

I did not write to his thread to defend myself (which is the reason I attacked him only on muslim-bashing grounds); I have a proud heritage that defends itself. I also didn’t write to defend my muslim family members or my muslim friends who aren’t on 43 Things, as they really couldn’t give a rat’s ass what this nobody thinks of them. I wrote only for Jiana and Saara. It comes far too late, and I’m ashamed and very sorry for that, but I wanted to defend them, in a way, at last. They made this site a better place. We all lost something, when they left, and we only have ourselves to blame for it. I’m so very sorry that I was so foolish to think that we could all tacitly agree to ignore this spiteful, old man, and make him disappear. The only way to fight him and his ilk is to really fight them, it seems.

Anyhow, it’s great to meet you, Revenge of Nude Freedom. You’re the sort of friend I’d want in my corner, and, hey, I can thank Enore for arranging it so that we could meet! Thanks, Enore!

Damn, I'm out of cheers.

I’m proud to be your husband.

I've got no cheers, either.

But I got you, babe. And I’m really lucky for that and pretty damned proud to be your wife, too.

For Roxi and Cookie

some classic Sonny and Cher

Awww....

I bet you two make a cute couple. :-)

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you two are awesome

WHY am I not subscribed to you?

Remedying that…NOW!

You too, RONF. I don’t want to miss any block party fun.

I have found faith again in 43 Things.

This site will always be very special to me, but it had become a place that I had found myself with less and less interest in visiting. A lot of the people whom I considered friends hardly used the site anymore, and many more had simply deleted their accounts and moved on.

I’ve seen recently that there are still people here, new and old, that I would like to interact with, learn from, and eventually call friend (if not already).

You are one of those new people and I subcribed to you recently, too, because you’re pretty awesome yourself.

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Yeah, I guess Enore inadvertently helped turn a negative into some positives....(well, indirectly and inadvertently.)

I hear you, and I agree with you very much.

During our brief truce (and the truce why my idea, I really didn’t expect it to last, it wasn’t unconditional, and if anything it was an attempt on my part to at least try to better understand the guy.) Well, I posted about feeding the hungry people in the world, and he retorted with, “Or we could just let them all starve.” Then when I questioned him about it, he insisted that he was serious!!!!! Seriously, I can’t make this up, nor would I want to.

And his bigoted insults, I feel like you, it bothers me, because it’s like I can see the people he’s attacking. He attacks muslims, and I see this beautiful Sufi friend of mine. He uses as an avatar, a “lawn jockey” of a “black” person with overly dark skin, and overly white lips, and I think of my black friends on here.

And when he insulted the mentally ill, I just about wanted to book a flight to Stockton, and personally flatten the guy out like a pancake, I have a diagnosis, my soulmate has a diagnosis, and I know many people (some of whom are good friends.) who have mental health issues. I just wanted to kill him when he posted that.

I think it’s good to take a stand, but at the same time, knowing that he thrives on attention, and if you criticize him, he will often do it 10 times more, and 10 times worse. So, I guess if you make a strong enough stand, that you can remember it, and take pride in doing it, but with the balance of not making him feel “encouraged”.

And yeah, at times I’ve felt a tad sorry for him, wondering what led to him being the way he is.

But, I’ve noticed that his “friends” fall into different categories. His most vile stuff, usually only draws the usual sick people, and sychophants (sp.?) with no other life. I can at least count on some of his friends not to endorse his rubbish. I have on a couple of occasions been shocked by those who have, though. I won’t mention any names (at least not publicly.) but one person I lost some respect for, after her brown nosing of him. Another person (who I think has deleted her account for about the 4th time, and AFAIK, is still inactive.) once said to him, “Tell me about the muslims.” and when I responded to her saying “please don’t encourage him.” she had a hissy fit, telling me if I didn’t like what she said I could unsubscribe and/or block her, so I did both. And no it wasn’t Artemis, it was a certain woman from Georgia.

I’ve given up on reporting him, I’ve tried that approach a few times, and to no avail. One time they just warned him, and deleted a few of his pix. If he gets neighborhood watched, he’ll just get defended and get to keep his account, same as always. One of the Robots I reported him to once, even got an attitude with me about it, I don’t know if he was in a bad mood that day, or if he figures, he should stay, because it gives this site hits or something. He even said he wasn’t crazy about the guy, despite saying I was “nagging the robots.” So, I don’t bother talking to him anymore, I followed his advice to direct my concerns to my “favorite robot” after that, but unfortunately Daniel Spils will be leaving us.

Well, to end this on a positive note, I think most of the people on here are good, some I would even say great or wonderful.

I hear you.

One thing I will say in Enore’s defense is that in, my opinion, he is not a racist. Sure, sometimes he uses inappropriate avatars, but I don’t think he has any problem with the colour of one’s skin.

I agree, however, that most of the people here are positive, as you would expect from a site dedicated to improving ourselves and the world around us.

His views on race are a bit confusing....

At best, he might not be a racist, in the way that one could say Archie Bunker wasn’t a racist. But like Archie Bunker, he flings the stereotypes around. Enore at times has been more extreme than Archie Bunker.

He (Enore) did tell me once that he opposes “political correctness” (well, actually he’s said that many times.) and that the avatars,etc. are his way of combating that. He’s said he’s not a racist, but he won’t discourage it, because he “doesn’t want to tell other people how to think.”
He’s said he would fight for example against racial groups being barred admittance to anything, and that he has fought against that in the past.

Now, I’m not giving the guy a big endorsement, or even a little pat on the back, but I think he was being sincere when he said that.

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LL is EXCITED! Matty got his visa!!

Not sure I agree with you entirely.

Regarding your first paragraph, that is. :-)

Just because someone’s intolerance or discrimination isn’t based on the colour of another’s skin, doesn’t mean that they’re not racist.

The UN doesn’t appear to make any distinction between racial and ethnic discrimination. Therefore, if a person makes discriminatory remarks against an entire group of people based upon race or ethnicity (e.g., if I say “Americans”, thereby implying ‘all Americans’), that’s racism. Add religious discrimination/prejudice/intolerance (whichever fits best) to the pot, and there we have a recipe for something with a decidedly nasty aftertaste.

Totally with you on your second paragraph, though.

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5 people found this helpful.....

Yeah, and I’ve had more people than that PM me their mutual dislike of the guy of the years.

The silent majority…..hmmmmm….

Oh, and rubber gloves indeed....

Good one! I’ve often felt like I needed a shower after reading his garbage.

Lady Grinning Soul is not in a good place right now

I never liked

being left out of anything…I want to join the club.

Hi Cookie and Roxi, nice to meet you. If I had any cheers I’d be bombing you both like crazy.

Nudey, get my kool-aid and cookies ready, ‘cos I’m on my way ;-)
x

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Nice to meet you too, Cessie.

Membership to the club is somewhat exclusive, but seemingly easy to obtain. Roxi and I didn’t even need to ask, and were ushered in with VIP tickets.

All you need to do is ignore Uncle Enore’s interpretation of free speech (the do as I say, not as I do version), and engage him in a knowledgable and contrary way on one of his hateful rants. Then hey presto, Bob’s your Uncle. And Enore isn’t.

Lady Grinning Soul is not in a good place right now

Oh good...

...in that case I think we might already have a done deal!
x

Hey, Cessie...

...did you know that you’re from my home town?

Lady Grinning Soul is not in a good place right now

Seriously?!

What a coincidence :-)

And you’re the second person on here to tell me that in two days…which is quite funny, considering I have the whole world to potentially be in contact with!

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I can’t believe this happened. I see Uncle Enore being blocked more than him blocking others. I imagine he knows that it is likely to happen when he so unpolishly spews up his mind.
I still see him like a porcupine that is soft on the inside, and a bratty child at heart, that indiscriminately pokes anyone around yet can at times retract his quills and show a soft side.

However him blocking you guys seems quite odd, and unfair.
I feel sorry he is willing to loose such a sweet couple of friends.
I don’t know what made him do that ( I read from new to old posts and just got here), however I think he could have self induced a thicker skin by now.

Hi, Kanard

Sorry, I haven’t been receiving notifications, so I’ve missed quite a few replies to this thread.

Uncle Enore and I have never been friends, so he’s not losing anything by blocking me. I would never be friends with a person who’s voiced such disgusting views about Muslims, anyhow.

I think he blocked us both because I remember something he’d thought everyone had forgotten. I’d been expecting him to defend it by calling it a joke (not that that would have excused anything, considering it would have been a really stupid, callous, unfunny joke), but instead he prefers to deny it, altogether.

I think you’re so soft and sweet that you’re more likely to see those attributes in others: not only him, but me, too. I’m not so sweet. War hardens people. I wasn’t afraid of Khomeini, and I’m not afraid of this little, old man, either.

I'm so sorry he was so aweful to you...

And I don’t know if I would have been so sweet if he went after me with personal attacks either.

Funtash is feeling somewhat optimistic about life in general.

hmm...

...finally caught up on this thread late last night, and similar ones, plus the thread that started this going. Wow. Cheers to you all for standing your ground and arguing your points so well.
On U.E. – There’s so much negativity and horrid stuff that spews forth sometimes -by times both my husband and I wanted to wash our hands of the whole mess. Yet I have 43er friends, who are very dear to me, who he has really helped out, and have developed real friendships with him. I interact with him here on a regular basis – I do believe in free speech, but man, he really makes me shake my head in sadness and disbelief at times.

Thank you so much for posting Funtash, and sorry for the very late reply.

“Unfortunately,” I’ve been too busy to bother really saying much. He’s adding to his lies, now, saying that he’d posted against the government of Iran, rather than the people. Right. And that Cookie and I had misinterpreted his statements, as a result of our own bias. Well. Now that he’s already blocked me, once, though, I’m not going back to his thread. He’s shown that he can embarrass himself, without my having to point it out, so I’ll just leave him to it.

Yes, he does seem to be a beloved friend to those in his inner circle, and they do seem to think that it doesn’t matter how he treats others, as long as he’s good to them. They know the sort of friend they’re getting. I do think, however, that even the most selfish girl will eventually weary of a guy who takes her out and fawns all over her, if he’s rude to the waitstaff.

Thanks again for being so kind as to write. I appreciate very much that you’ve written to show that you understand and care.

I think if he is trying to change his story now, then the many comments on the topic must have got through to him, and he’s realised how wrong his original statement was. Here’s hoping that in the future he applies some thinking prior to writing. Speaking out sometimes does make a difference.

I wish I could agree.

But it seems he’s just found an excuse for being hateful, saying that Cookie and I reacted “emotionally” when he was “cerebral” – ‘cause his Islamaphobic vitriol is so rational, and pointing out historic fact and calling a bigot a bigot is such emotional nonsense.

He does have followers who let him blur statements that are crystal clear when read objectively, and buy that he was ranting about the government, although he was clearly targeting the entire country. There will always be, unfortunately, people who will believe only what’s convenient for them to believe, however untrue they know it to be. But even they know, on a deeper level, that they’re only kidding themselves.

So, you’re absolutely right, speaking out does make a difference. It certainly shows you the true character of the people around you. Your character, I already knew. Thank you for writing. I’m lucky to know you, even if it’s just in this “virtual” world. There’s a real person with real values and real compassion, behind your words, and I’m grateful you’re out in the “real” world, making it better.

Cerebral??

No way! He’s no Einstein, that’s for sure. This actually made me laugh, even though the whole saga is pretty horrible.

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Kalibebti happily howling at the sanguine moon

He just thinks he's a brilliant, thought-provoking, hilarious nonconformist.

He’s not that unusual. At least, thankfully, he seems to be the only one of his particular type on this site.

Enore used to have this list of people who blocked him....

and if memory serves me correctly, I remember you being on his list. He gave up on listing people awhile back. But when I first became acquainted with him, I remember seeing your name on his list.

And I don’t mind brilliant, thought-provoking hilarious non-conformity at times, it’s just that his brand of it, usually isn’t my cup of tea.

You totally nailed it.

And, you’re right, he’s not the first person to put down others in order to feel bigger, himself. Thankfully, as you’ve pointed out, people on this site tend to be out to improve themselves and this world, so their focus is much more likely to be positively-oriented. They’re also more likely to be happy; happy people don’t cultivate blanket hatreds.

Thanks for writing, Kalibebti. I appreciate every word everybody’s written, in support and/or comfort. You’ve all shown me that people do, indeed, care, when others are attacked unfairly – even when “others” are people they’ve never met.


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