How to make love.
How I did it: By being patient, getting involved, and doing everything I can to make my partner comfortable, I've made Randi able to feel completely comfortable around me, and to completely trust me with everything, even the really kinky stuff.
Now, we've been making love (and having sex) for almost three years, and it's still sparky, still surprising, and still some of the best fun I've ever had, even if we're not always totally focused.
I really think it's improved our relationship and given us new ways of communicating. It even helps us when we're too emotional to work problems out rationally; we can simply hold each other or take what relief, what control we need to feel in order to work through emotions and return to rational thought afterwards.
Lessons & tips: Never be afraid to share a fetish... you might just get to live out a fantasy.
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Make sure you talk during sex. Information is powerful, and learning what you can about your partner will help you make them happy.
Be sure to be expressive. If you're not laughing, crying, screaming, and loving sometime during sex... you're doing it wrong.
Resources: >.>
Watching porn for the few years before actually having sex gives some good techniques... just don't expect to try everything.
