How to be less needy
"Not easy. but i feel great now"
How I did it: It was after a harsh break up. he's one cold fella but relationship with him gave me a tight slap. a wake up call.
So i got single, i learnt to love myself. appreciate myself. spend time with friends too. do activities i love doing i even found out new things im into. I learnt that before loving someone you shud love urself first. take care of urself, kiss urself in the mirror if u want every morning.
Now im in a great relationship, he loves it that i know when to gv him space and i dont have to be with him everywhere he does. i love it too!! it's like i have my own life (sumtimes it makes him show that he's worried i found sum1 else tehe). Being needy can be boring. being needy shows everything. .. its attractive to be lil mysterious sumtimes =p. the key to being un-needy is BALANCE in life.
Lessons & tips:
- balance time with family, friends, partner, and YOURSELF!
- learn to do things by urself. be strong too.
- love urself. accept urself.
- get busy- with ur hobbies/work (e.g reading, extra classes, shopping, ps3, movies, cooking)
- try not to think what ur partner is doing. relax.
- have goals in life
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