How to fall in love
How I did it: Well... I never set out looking for love it just crept up on me when I was least expecting it. n_n' I'd been hurt and someone I never expected would even like me asked me to be part of his life. I was totally stunned, and happy, and butterfly-y all at once. I had no idea what to say to him, I'd been hurt and wasn't sure where this would go, what to do or say, no idea at all... I slept on it and when I woke up in the morning I figured, why not? I said yes. It's been about four years since that day, and if it's even possible I love him more than ever. Every day I am blessed that he is part of my life, and every day I am blessed that he asked me to be part of his. I understand more and more how everything happens for a reason. And as time goes on I only discover more and more that we have him in common and these cute things he does that you can't help but love. x3 And when I first start talking to him or see him, whatever the case may be, I still get butterflies in my stomach.
Lessons & tips: 1) It'll sneak up on you when you're not looking, don't try to force it to happen 'cause then it's not the real thing.
2) Take the chance! Don't be afraid, if you like him/her, ask them out! They might not say yes, but if that's the case at least you know you tried and didn't just let it go. If you let it go you'll always wonder.
3) If you do get your heart broken.. don't give up on love.
4) If someone/something tries to keep you apart, fight. Don't let circumstances or situations kill something you care about, it's not easy, but it can work.
5) It sounds cheesy and cliche, but it's totally true, when you find them, you'll know. It's when they do something little and you're smiling for days, or the electricity that runs up your arm when they touch your hand... You just know. :3
Resources: Friends! (Always want what's best for ya' and willing to listen when they don't go so well. n wn;)
Family! (Again, there for you when you need them. ^-^)
