TheNewChristie Something good this way comes...
Great advice!
How I did it: Now whenever something pops into my head, like 'I want to learn this' or 'I fancy doing that' I just go and do it. No obsessive 'I don't have time', 'I don't have money' (within reason). I now listen to more music, and put on new bands that I've always wanted to know about; I've started playing frisbee just because I enjoy it, and I soon want to start learning to mix.
It helps having a new job soon, which means I will actually hav a bit more time and money. Although some things, like playing frisby, cost me £3 for a cheap disc to start. I just generally try and be more spontaneous now :)