How I did it: I chose to look at the persons value instead of the value of being right. The emotions crop up again, so choosing your view is important. See the good. even if they never know what you did.

Lessons & tips: Fear should not be the motivator. Being afraid that a person will do the same thing again can motivate you to build a defence. If this becomes your skill, you will become suspicious and defensive. Good at defending what is right, having a hard time being vunerable and trusting. Becoming good at loving is a much better skill

Aug 28, 2009, 01:52PM PDT | 1 comment | 6 cheers