How to dance like nobody's watching
It made me
confident 
"I should do everything like nobody's watching."
How I did it: I danced at a club and spent a lot of time dancing in front of the mirror and looking at myself. I spent a lot of time on the pole, just having fun. I know people were watching, but I dance now only for my pleasure, not to please others.
It sure feels nice not dancing for tips. I am free to really express myself through movement, and not just shake my ass.
