moai is mindful
kudos for courage
Confidence is self-confirming, isn’t it?
It is our own ideas that limit us.
How I did it: I think the main problem many people have wearing bikinis is self-consciousness. But really take a long hard look at everyone else on the beach or in the pool and realize that you are all human. A bikini does not really reveal more than a bathing suit, just skin. If worn with confidence, it feels wonderful.
Lessons & tips: Get to a store and spend some money on a bikini that flatters you -- don't go too itsy-bitsy especially if you are self conscious.
Resources: The Bay
The Gym
some confidence.
moai is mindful
Confidence is self-confirming, isn’t it?
It is our own ideas that limit us.
My adolescent nieces were bickering with each other and pushing each others buttons as siblings do so well. I interrupted their verbal battle, and shared a story (for the first time) of the reason I have NEVER worn a bikini in public. It had to do with a stupid little comment my brother had made when I was a teenager. It stuck in my head all these years, and completely turned me into a bikini-phobe. When I said it out loud, I realized how ridiculous it was…
I started looking online, and found this 50s inspired clothing line, and thought start with a saucy one-piece and work my way to bikini
You just gave me the final push…bikini search here I come
Holly really has a lot to do...
that looks like a super hot bikini. When I was in high school my best friend told me I sounded like a horse when I laughed. So I stopped laughing…. for years. I’d smile. I’d say “that’s funny” but no laugh. But I’ve come around!!! Isn’t it crazy how the people closest to us can have such an effect on the way we live?
Congrats