How to realize that some people are never going to be the people you thought they might be and be ok with that by Torikinz

"I'm ok with it."

How I did it: I guess I just stopped trying. I settled into the fact that things, or people rather, are going to be exactly who they are, no matter how much you want things to be different. It's too frustrating to try to make people fit in the box that you want to put them in. You just have to relinquish this ideology you have about that person and say "Hey, this is who they are going to be, and if I'm going to continue to have this person in my llife, I better be ok with that" Otherwise, you're just going to feel bad all the time, and who wants that.


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Oct 13, 2008, 11:21PM PDT | 2 comments | 6 cheers


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sherly feeling better !!!

=)

good for you…
best part is realisation … shows we are growing every day …
cheers!!

Oct 13, 2008, 11:54PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

Rockchick9

very positive and true comment, like reading it.

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