2 years sounds like a long time but it is better than spending the rest of your life unhappy.
How to not get attached so easily!
It made me
happy 
"this was one of the hardest things I've ever done, and it sounds so easy, but it's so much more"
How I did it: I had to get over some things that happened to me when I was younger....because it felt like everyone I got attached to hurt me so it had an adverse affect. As I got older, I just sort of clung to people, I don't know why, but I do know that I've stopped it. It really hurt, it's like detaching yourself from air, or atleast that's what it felt like. I had to let go of friends as well as memories I clung to for years. And it was really painful to me because, I have horrible memories and I don't have many friends, and letting the ones go I did have because they were bad influences and I'm trying to get my life on track. It took me time, because I don't get attached to many people, so when I began trying to work on this, it was like I was tugging on a life-line inside and I would cry all the time, but in the end it was all worth it. I feel so good about this now
Lessons & tips: it's easy to give your heart away, but very painful to try and get it back
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