How to dabble in a little lesbianism
"This was so much fun - girls are just soooooo NICE!"
How I did it: I moved into a student housing cooperative where people are very accepting, and I became good friends with one of my neighbors.
I don't really want to go into detail, but I will say it was a wonderful experience. I'd love to do it again, and to all those girls thinking about it but who are just too scared to act on their impulses - don't be nervous! The right girl will make the experience feel completely natural. Plus girls are often better at communication and making you feel at ease than a guy would be.
Also, don't be afraid that messing around with girls is going to turn you into a complete lesbian (not that that would be a bad thing!). Like don't let that thought stop you from experimenting. After I had done it I found that I still liked guys a whole whole lot, and prefer them as my usual partner.
Oh another great benefit I got from these experiences with women was becoming more comfortable with my own body! I think because I had never seen/smelled/tasted/felt a woman's swimsuit parts, I was always anxious about how MY swimsuit parts appeared/smelled/tasted/felt to the guys I was with. But after being with a woman, I realized how magnetic and beautiful and erotic those parts can really be, and it made me feel powerful knowing that I had those beautiful parts too!
I guess the moral of the story is: women are beautiful, I encourage dabbling, don't be scared of it, you could have a lot of fun, and it could be a great learning experience.
Lessons & tips: One thing I completely didn't expect was the fact that girls will touch you, how they touch themselves, and their way is not necessarily how you like to be touched! While most girls have an intuitive sense of 'wetter = better' and your basic anatomy, don't be afraid to tell her what you like.
I hate saying this but it's true: sometimes alcohol can make you feel a little more comfortable if it's your first time - but don't make it a habit. The experience is so much more fufilling when you're lucid and sober.
