How to be a better mother
It made me
reassured 
"It took someone else to point it out to me!"
How I did it: Made sure that I followed my instincts, followed good advice, sought expert advice and finally listened, really listened.
Listened to my children and worked hard at keeping lines of communication open. Enjoy and let 'fun' happen with the children and be united with partner (at least in front of children)
Lessons & tips: Never underestimate your instincts and stick to your guns if you feel them to be correct.
Resources: Close friends, family & GP
