How to be a better girlfriend
It made me
very happy 
"I stopped judging the hell out of my girlfriend. Who am I? God? Not even a close second :-)"
How I did it: I took a close look in the mirror and decided to focus on my weaknesses instead of my girlfriends.
I also started going to Adult Children of Alcoholics meetings. Wow!!! I learned so new ways to deal with my control, judgemental and isolation issues. I will always be a work in progress but I now have some sharper tools.
Lessons & tips: Decide whether or not this relationship is worth the work. If it is, put on some gloves, roll up your socks and get dirty!
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