How I did it: It was a very, very, very long process. You can't just wake up one day and tell yourself that you will say "I will act as if I cannot fail" and then actually act upon it.

I had to break out of my shell to reach that point, to feel comfortable with myself (especially around others) and to feel like I am worth something. I wasn't any of those things, and I didn't believe in myself. I had to over come all those things, and about a week ago I sat back and realized...that I was THERE. I did it! So I walk and talk and write and run and learn and give and love everyday with the idea that I will act as if I cannot fail.

Lessons & tips: I think the most kep concept is believing in yourself. You need confidence in yourself. I spent years not doing either, so I know what it's like. It's really difficult to live with, and even more difficult to overcome. You'll have to come out of your box first, which means you will be out of your element, awkward, and uncomfortable for a while. You'll just have to deal with that and keep pushing, keep going. And one day you'll realize...hey, look where I am! :)

Resources: My best resources were myself. I mean, I had support from my friends, but ultimately this is about YOU believeing in YOURSELF. You can't exactly learn that from other people besides getting support from them. But definately let your friends know what you're trying to do, and they will support you, keep pushing you on, letting you know that this is really something you can do.

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Oct 19, 2008, 04:48AM PDT | 1 comment | 13 cheers