How I did it: I had this drama in my life a year and a half. I let this drama control me. I would be upset, or happy, or vindicated, all the while it was controlling me and my right to enjoy my life. Then I realized it doesn't have to! I took matters into my own hands when someone crossed the line with me. I stood up to face them and did what ever necessary to stop the drama. I learned there's no reason to ever be afraid of anyone. I stopped the shit right at its source. Thats my advice for anyone who doesn't want drama in their life.

I did a banishing ritual at the beach today to stop  dramatic people from being able to enter my life. Also to stop ill talk of me. I feel great!

Lessons & tips:

• Don't worry about retaliation. believe in Karma. By wanting revenge the drama still owns you.
• Never fear anyone. No one is bigger than you. We are all equals, just some people may be more evil, but that doesn't mean they have more POWER. No matter what they do you don't have to react to it, no matter HOW upsetting it is.
• Be careful online. Don't reveal too much, don't check sites of people who create your drama. If u can't see or hear from them they can't create trouble.
• Be honest with friends and only speak with those who are honest with you. If someone is two faced drop them. They weren't your real friends anyway.
• Don't gossip unless you are OK with the person knowing you said the intended information.
• Be careful who you trust.
• Don't hang out with people who have lots of drama! Like attracts like!!!

Resources:

• AA
• Good friends
• The book "24 hours a day"

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