My ‘first kiss’ (i hate that my first one was so awful, and that everyone makes a big deal about the first one) was with someone I didn’t know, I’m pretty sure he was drunk and I just did not enjoy it at all. That was when I was 16 and it put me off for 2 years! I guess I realised that I just wasn’t ready and it became much less of a big deal to me.

But at the same time, don’t put so much onto it. Yeah, it sucked but it doesn’t mean you’re cheap at all! And desire and lust will always over-ride self-control- and that’s OK, we’re human afterall!