How to be loved
How I did it: I've had many times where I've really liked a guy, but never got him. There was a time in my life in high school where all my friends had boyfriends and prom dates and all, and I still hadn't had my 1st boyfriend yet. When I started college and met my ex, I thought I had found a great guy who "loved" me as much as I loved him, but quickly within a few months, he got my heart broken. After that I thought I'd never find love again or a trustworthy guy who would love me forever and never hurt me. All that however changed when I went on a trip one weekend with friends to just have a good time and unexpectedly, met the best guy in the world who loves me till today no matter what and has been there for me...my wonderful boyfriend.
Lessons & tips: Everything happens when you least expect it. I went to SB to have fun with a few of my friends, not expecting to meet any guys. I wasn't looking for a relationship or a boyfriend, nor did I care to meet any guys who would be a potential bf, but ended up coming back home meeting a future bf!
Don't even have the doubt that you'll never find the one. You will. everyone has someone who's perfect for them. Do NOT stop looking for your prince charming (or princess) and don't let past issues stop you from doing that too. He's out there somewhere. Think of it this way: "My Prince charming is out there, he just took the wrong route coming to me, so he has to turn back and come my way which takes longer" Sounds really corney, but let's face it....it's somewhat true.
Resources: -Friends. If it wasn't for my friends who I shared a hotel room with during my stay in SB, I would have never met my boyfriend. He happened to know one of the girls and she introduced us.
-Confidence. Be confident in yourself when you meet a new guy/girl.
-Attitude. Always have a good attitude, be nice and smile! Guys love it when girls smile and carry themselves classy! (Guys: Girls love it too) Remember: Be Classy not Trashy.
