How I did it: I gave up on the jerks I used to/currently liked. They didn't make me happy, they never gave me what I was looking for. I stopped looking at every male that passed me, I focused on myself and doing things that made me happy. I enjoyed my period of singleness. I enjoyed the parts of friends, family members, past loves/likes, and myself that I loved. A boy in the form of Matt Dixon talked to me one night on okcupid.com and as we grew to know each other I have come to realize that he is every part I loved from all of those characters. I'm happy, in love, cared for, and set for life as far as I can tell.

Lessons & tips: Discover what you want and dream dream dream about them. Someone composed of all the parts you want and more you didn't even know you needed will manifest itself into a person and will come to you. The best part? You'll be perfect for them too.

Resources: The Law of Attraction by Ester and Jerry Hicks, okcupid.com, my sister, friends, art, and music.

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Dec 14, 2009, 07:06PM PST | 1 comment | 1 cheer