How I did it: I spent a lot of time waiting around for friends to agree on where to go, missed movies I wanted to see because I passively mentioned I wanted to go instead of making a plan, and had to wait four months to try a new bar.

But now, all that has changed. If there's something I want to do, i put it in my calendar, invite friends, and even if no one else goes, I do. And it's amazing.

Besides, now they are jealous that I am always doing something new and cool. Must suck to be them.

Lessons & tips: Never, never, never stall your plan because someone wants to wait until tomorrow. They will bail then too. Just go. They can catch up next time.

Dec 15, 2009, 01:03PM PST | 0 comments | 4 cheers