How to not care what other people think of me by Chelsea H

"This experience has helped me so much,it let my life progress instead of just sitting there and being quiet."

How I did it: As soon as i set this goal,I thought it would never happen. Everyday i thought of this goal,i told myself to do it no matter what! Every time i acted shy,like putting my head down and staring at the floor i pretended that there was and invisible string attached to the back of my head and every time i did that it would be pulled back. I told myself "why would it matter? It's not like they'll interfere with what I'll be doing in the future.They'll spend there life being critical while i live out my life to the fullest"

Lessons & tips: Just start out slowly,don't go do something huge the minute you set this goal.For example,maybe you could start off with not looking down anymore, that's what i started with and it helped through the way ^_^

Resources: CONFIDENCE!!!!! =)


 

Oct 24, 2008, 09:53AM PDT | 3 comments | 4 cheers


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Chelsea H haven't been on in a loooong time, been pretty busy ^_^

as soon as i started putting my head up,i notice a huge difference.People stared at me with curiosity,and not like,”wow,what a wierdo…”

Nov 25, 2008, 03:44PM PST | Respond to this

SatisfyMySoul IS FEELING HONGREE

Invisible string

Ooh I love it. I appreciate that, your idea has actually opened a door for me and some tricks to use for myself. mm?? I have a tendancy to reply to people real fast in conversation, fear that wont wait around for an answer. It’s stupid I know but this tactic has led me to say things without stopping and thinking about what i actually really want to say. So maybe I could have an invisible extra hand over my mouth lol I dont know yet but I’m really glad to have come across your post, cheers.

Dec 28, 2008, 02:04AM PST | Thread | Respond to this

Chelsea H haven't been on in a loooong time, been pretty busy ^_^

^_^

thank you so much,i hope that you get that extra invisible hand that you wanted ;) and i hope you accomplish your goals._

Jan 01, 2009, 11:00AM PST | Respond to this


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