How I did it: Allowing myself the time and space to hurt when i needed to, get angry when i needed to, and eventually, get in contact again, that proved to be a very useful tool as i could see what he'd become and i didn't like what i saw, that in the end was my saving grace.

Lessons & tips: Be kind to yourself, allow yourself to feel whatever it is you need to feel and give yourself time.

Jan 14, 2010, 09:12AM PST | 0 comments | 4 cheers