How I did it: We visited a working monastery where mum went last year and attended the first main service of the day with the monks.  We lit candles and said prayers.  Then we went for a long winter walk around the grounds - family and friends.  Half way round we had coffee and a shot of brandy (because mum loved to do that on her long walks!) and held a toast. We left a card for the monk who helped mum last year and each bought a memento from the monastery shop.  It was a truly beautiful occasion.  We all came home feeling peaceful and calm. 

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Feb 10, 2010, 01:44PM PST | 0 comments | 2 cheers