How I did it: I stopped looking, reconnected with an old friend and fell in love. After 6 months, he proposed and about 2 years from our first kiss we got married. And we don't feel all that different. Not sure that's a good thing, but I hope so.

Lessons & tips: Don't think you can change whoever you want to marry.

Resources: Martha Stewart Weddings. Seriously. Also in the "I can't believe that made a difference" category is the self-help tome "He's Just Not That Into You". 

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Oct 29, 2008, 03:15AM PDT | 1 comment | 2 cheers