My boyfriend left me two weeks ago for a younger girl. I have learned that in order for one person to be happy, that happiness has to be taken away from another person because there is only a set amount of happiness in this world and she took y happiness from me… or did he… I dont know.
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I don’t think the person who stole your happiness was the other girl. I know from experience that it’s always easier to blame the unknown (girl) than to really recognize the situation for what it is. It was your ex-bf’s decision. Maybe these are his true colors. I can emphasize with you, my ex cheated on me with one of my good friends. It hurt, heck it literally killed me. I wish that i knew what i know now….it is what it is. Time moves on and those memories won’t be so bad anymore. Everyone experiences a world of pain at least once in their life, and everyone usually survives. You’ll be ok.
I think i have to disagree with you when you say that there’s a set amount of happiness in this world. i know you’re probably not feeling your best right now, and it may be easy to see the world/people as horrible. It’s only natural. Give yourself some time, will you still feel this way about happiness in a few months? The world would be a sad sad place if the only possible way for a person to be happy was if they stabbed their neighbor in the back and stole it. The world is what you make of it, your life is what you make of it…..if you think this way, well it WILL be this way.