How I did it: My wife has always wanted to do this, and I've always been curious enough to want to do it, but I've long had a fear of heights that concerned me.  Last year a friend with a strong phobia went skydiving after her husband shared his experience, letting her know he didn't think it would actually activate her phobias, and she had a great time!

I was inspired by her story, so I was now willing, and it was our 19th wedding anniversary, so what the hell.  I drove my wife there without telling her anything until we pulled in the driveway to the skydiving place.  She flipped - in a good way.  It was a truly fabulous experience.

Lessons & tips: My wife got the video made, which is great to have.  I didn't get it because I didn't want to perform for the camera - I wanted to just enjoy it.  I think either way is great, so follow your instincts.

Go ahead and do it.  Your fears are unjustified, and they probably won't be a real issue.

Resources: Skydive Spaceland just south of Houston.
Ros' blog about her skydiving experience.

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May 19, 2010, 06:43AM PDT | 0 comments | 7 cheers