version territory if you don't have anything nice to say, write a song
I like this idea… :D
How I did it: you simply jot down the things you're looking for in a person you'd want to have a relationship with. you don't have to be realistic about it; just write every pleasant adjective or noun you'd expect to find in someone. should you actually find the person that matches with at least more than half of your requirements, then you're a pretty lucky person! =D