How to let go by eggwoman10

"I got over a guy I really liked when all he wanted was sex!"

How I did it: I really liked someone who worked with me. We were flirting and at a works party he asked me back to his hotel room, which I declined. Exactly one year later I ended up sleeping with him, but he only wanted sex,  nothing more. I really fell for him and it upset me when he would arrange to meet and then cancel. all this and having to work with him everyday :(((

Circumstances changed my feelings, he and I were moved away from each other due to work, so it's kinda like that saying "out of sight, out of mind". Nonetheless, I was heartbroken as I knew he liked me for ages and I felt like a fool when nothing became of it....
I would say the main thing that helped me was not seeing him everyday...and me forcing myself to try and forget him as see him as he really was.I am in a state of peace now after all the emotional stress :))

Lessons & tips: never believe anything a man says when he is trying to get you into bed! Don't get too attached too quickly. 


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May 22, 2010, 07:07PM PDT | 0 comments | 4 cheers


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