How I did it: Well, I've always been meek and quiet, and didn't really have much confidence in myself and other people could see that in the way I presented myself. But I am in a much better place now. I have friends who I know will support me, I have a loving boyfriend who is always there for me, I have a good job, I have a goal I'm striving towards, I'm quickly gaining independence. All of these things are giving me a greater sense of confidence in myself and my abilities, and I feel like I'm reflecting that in the way I carry myself.

Lessons & tips: To have self-confidence, you have to like yourself, and like your life, or at least be actively striving to change what you don't like about it. Once you get to that point confidence in yourself will come with it.

Resources: Me. This is something that you have to do on your own, but having a support network helps a lot.

May 28, 2010, 04:35AM PDT | 2 comments | 6 cheers