How I did it: At NewDay, I found someone who I thought was the best person to tell, and at the time and for some time afterwards it worked, my problem was getting better, but for a while now it has slipped back into it's same cycle of problematic disarray; it eats away at you inside.

Lessons & tips: Don't rush into it, THINK. At the time for me, it felt like I was making the best decision in the world, but wait a few months before you even think about doing anything, find out as much as possible before you do something, judge the person's character, trustworthiness, intelligence to grasp your problem and if they've dealt with something like it before which can often speed up your own recovery....

Resources: MSN messenger, it helped me connect with my person who lived over 200 miles away who wasn't easily contactable by physical means.

Nov 02, 2008, 07:05AM PST | 0 comments | 1 cheer