How I did it: I always knew but kept being distracted by outside expectations. Then, I learned “If I didn’t define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people’s fantasies for me and eaten alive.(- Audre Lorde)” Read how I did it…
How I did it: My gorgeous backyard My silly dog and her puppies New Mariah Carey music Being held at night by my love Rapping with my nephews Singing for YouTube Living on my own Having my own house Seeing a praying mantis at my door for 2 weeks Sweet text messages from my love Hearing Missy's tail thump when she's wagging it because she's happy Paying off a debt Li… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I used to take every bad mood I had so seriously and feel compelled to act, now I don't make decisions about my loved ones in the heat of them and it helps improve our relationships. Read how I did it…