How I did it: I can't take 100% credit for my success. My mom used to yell at my brother and I like no other, until she finally got put on anti-depressants for her SAD. Flash forward 20-some years and I find myself in the same situations, snapping at my kiddo for little or no reason. I finally took a step back, assessed the situation, and talked to my dr.I started on Lexapro, which is a really low dose anti-depressant/anti-anxiety med… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I started working on the excerpts as soon as they were available. Most of them were really tough, but I stuck with it. In the end there were 5 cellists who auditioned for one spot... they decided not to fill the spot but offered me the chance to be the substitute player, which I guess is better than nothing. I think it's a tie, and I'm happy with the outcome. Read how I did it…
How I did it: Years ago I decided not to drink dark sodas anymore, and only drank clear sodas or water. I don't know if that was better than drinking the dark stuff, but about halfway through college I suddenly remembered how much I LOVE Dr PEPPER! And I still do!But I know it's not healthy for me, so I don't buy it to keep at home anymore, instead I drink bottled water or refill a water glass around the house. At work I take a bottle… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I'm very sensitive to change around me, but I realized that I tend to base my moods off of those around me. If my boyfriend is pissed about something, I think he's pissed at me. If my best friend is having a great day, I'm having a great day. Sometimes that's good (like the great day), but most of the time it's just bad (like when I freaked out and thought I was getting dumped when in reality we were both just very busy)… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I started really getting to know the girls that I work with, and have found a few new close friends in that bunch. I'm still very close to my friends from college, but since I graduated back in '02, it was time for new "grown up" friends. I'm very happy to have people other than my boyfriend to confide in when I need to, and even happier to have people who trust me and treat me like a friend. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I've been spoiling my boyfriend by listening to him... When he needs time alone I've been giving him time alone, and when he needs me I try to be available. I've learned the fine art of balancing our relationship; neither of us walks on each other, but if there's something the other wants we do the best to help. Recently he bought a condo for me, so I bought him a 58" plasma TV for it. It feels good to spoil him! Read how I did it…
How I did it: I used part of my tax return to treat my son and I to a much needed vacation. I shopped around to find a great deal on airfare and hotel. I kept it a secret from my son for months so he wouldn't be totally freaking out every day (today mom? today mom? today today today???), which was totally worth it! Read how I did it…
How I did it: I started thinking about this last May. After trying lots of things I've settled on Blushing Cherry Blossom from Bath and Body Works for everyday wear (because it's fresh and sweet and cute, plus it doesn't cost an arm and a leg) and Pink: Oh La La by Victoria's Secret for evenings out (because it's also sweet but kind of sexy too).I like that neither of them break the bank because I don't think I could enjoy something if I felt lik… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I started taking my mom up on her offers to buy me clothes that fit. I also decided that, if I don't want to look like a bum then I just shouldn't look like a bum. No more t-shirts leftover from college (or, god forbid, bars), no more yoga pants to go shopping in...And I feel better about myself when meeting people too, like I don't have to apologize for my appearance. Read how I did it…
How I did it: I started cooking only from recipies and cookbooks right after I was married. I cooked (from cookbooks) every day of my pregnancy, and then didn't cook anything but baby food for about a year. I started cooking again last year when my son and I were out on our own and I just realized that I can cook now without always looking things up in a recipie box or cookbook. That's a good feeling! Read how I did it…
How I did it: I opened a savings account with my tax refund. Not the best interest rate, but at least I can say that I saved my money instead of blowing it all on double cheeseburgers (which was an option). Read how I did it…
How I did it: I finally bit the bullet and signed up for the group healthcare policy at work. I'm glad because it means I'll actually be able to go to a doctor when I need to, but really pissed because it's so flipping expensive. Read how I did it…
How I did it: In January of 2008 I seperated from my husband, and my son and I moved in with my parents. Although I have a music degree and lots of teaching experience, I had spent the last two years as a stay at home mommy, leaving me without any savings, a maxed out credit card, and no idea what I wanted to do. I lived at home for eight months, working a crappy part time job, then moved to a new city with my son to start a new job. … Read how I did it…
How I did it: I recently moved to a new place with my 3 year old son, and money is pretty tight for us. I decided that I would rather have internet than TV so, while we have a TV and use it to watch movies, we don't have any cable or dish service here. I do have a little antenna so I can watch the local news stations, but for the most part we keep the TV off and do other stuff instead. Read how I did it…
