How I did it: i did nothing. i literally did nothing to create this to happen. one Fall day in september, 1989 to be exact, i walked into my very first public high school class- English IA. i glanced to my right where i noticed a guy staring at me. i remember thinking to myself, "yeah, i gotta stay away from him! he looks like he's on somethin, and he's gotta be nothing but trouble!"i was so right.we didn't speak much- in fact, i can't recall ever sayi… Read how I did it…
How I did it: I finally walked into my laundry room (which is first floor, so really, this shouldn't have been complicated!) and just made it my goal to do at least ONE load a day. I'm now caught up with my laundry and have been for over a month! A WHOLE MONTH! This is such a huge thing for me...as I've never been caught up longer than a few days or even a week! I'm much happier and now I feel satisfaction that I can do this...and it hasn't taken over … Read how I did it…
How I did it: i was 15. it was christmastime. the guy was a good friend of mine in one of my classes at school. it was his first time too, so we didn't learn much from each other (positions, feelings, etc.) we were very classy by doing it in my grandparent's basement while they fell asleep watching christmas shows on tv. the whole experience was one big awful mistake. Read how I did it…
How I did it: not sure how we did it EITHER time. our son was conceived in only 3 months....but it took us 10 YEARS to finally get pregnant this time around with our daughter! i can't explain it...but i wish to give hope out there to those who are still trying. this is just one of those times where when people say, "don't ever give up" they are simply just crazy. i say, "GIVE UP", because the energy you put towards trying to get pregnant is not w… Read how I did it…
How I did it: i let go of all of the pain i'd been having, and was then forced to see within myself. i didn't like who i'd become. i wasn't proud of myself and couldn't believe others could be proud of me either. Read how I did it…
How I did it: beginning in May, i finally decided to let go of my pain of not being able to get pregnant the last 10 years, and so i signed up for nursing school. 2 weeks later, i discovered i was pregnant!i've been on a roller coaster of emotions ever since, but my life now is so much more fullfilling! i'm an at home mom and i've still got my eye on nursing school next Fall. Read how I did it…
How I did it: we communicate weekly. we use the "envelope system" to keep organized and not spend money that is supposed to be used on bills. we do this together and we make ourselves accountable by nominating someone close to us to keep us in check. Read how I did it…
How I did it: it helped my self esteem at first, and i did this when my husband and i split for what i thought was for good. maybe by doing this, i was able to give my husband some of the pain he put me through, but i think i could've sparked his anger and jealousy in other ways like just flirting in front of him or something. i really didn't have to do what i did in order to make him want me back...i know that now. and i totally regret ever doing… Read how I did it…