How I did it: Although I have marked this goal as "done", it doesn't mean I am going to stop thinking good thoughts for Sadie. A goal like this is not a Monday through Friday goal. We don't stop thinking of our friends once they pass away. We keep thinking, don't we? Wren, thank you for sharing Sadie and her stories with us, so that she became a part of 43T. ~KTGTFS Read how I did it…
How I did it: I kinda cannot believe I've done it! It's been years of wishing and months of working on it. It's been a great journey towards changing my thoughts, so better me. It's been a dream coming true step by step. It's been a hard work for 6 months but when I look back now, it seems a piece of cake. Read how I did it…
How I did it: Oh, I guess I don't have to tell you how to get to a concert, do I? ;-) It's pretty easy, you look up the show, you buy ticket, you wait impatiently and then go! And then, WOW! Read how I did it…
How I did it: The first thing was to set up the goal within 43T and activate "personal challenge". Usually, things like personal challenges, announcing something in public etc etc. do not increase my level of motivation anyhow. Only motivation that comes from the deepest within works for me. However! Looking at the goal itself and at decreasing number of days to get the goal completed made me somehow proud (and motivated!!). I couldn't miss my stretche… Read how I did it…
How I did it: The first thing was to get through all my things and classify them like: to be used and not to be used. Then, I had to figure out what to do with the old things. I didn't like the idea of simply throwing things away. Most of them could have been re-used. And the last step was just to give or sell them out. Read how I did it…
How I did it: Having adopted this goal I felt obliged to notice the new experiences I had during these three months. Usually, we do lots of new things but we simply do not notice them. We tend to take everything for granted whilst it is not. Furthermore, I realized unless I do something exciting and new and fulfilling (at least once a month), I feel cramped. Read how I did it…
How I did it: It seems the thing that used to disturb me the most was the way I was looking at myself and at the others. I used to have no respect for myself and such a huge respect for others. Why was I punishing myself so much and so long? This I cannot know. I know in turn that I had to learn the lesson : have respect for yourself if you want others to have respect for you. Keeping this in my mind, it is no longer a problem to do what I want to it. Read how I did it…
How I did it: There is nothing special to say here. I just took a little while each day and thought what would be exciting for me to do. If the day itself didn't bring anything exciting, I tried to do add this little exciting moment to my day. Day by day, it became easier to find an exciting thing to do and actually do it! It also helped me come to the point in which I love to do things that scare me. It's thrilling and so much fun. Read how I did it…
How I did it: The point was to understand that no-one will guess my thoughts unless I speak up my mind. The rest was just to conquer my limits. I would not had done it if I had not been spoken up for by my team-mates a few times. I had an idea but never spoke it up in front of the team. I used to suggest it to one of them silently as if it had been a secret. They didn't hesitate and were happy to speak up in front of the whole team. So the idea was the… Read how I did it…
How I did it: The most recent 'do whatever comes to my mind' activity took me around 15 days. From taking decision until coming back home. I was invited to Germany for a few days and thought it was a genious idea. Just took a couple of days off and packed my things and went. We went by car so it gave us flexibility and independance. No need to plan ahead, no need to check schedules, no need to wait for someone else... just did whate… Read how I did it…
How I did it: It was a long way to go. I had to understand that people do not act because of me. I have no impact on how they act, their decisions (whether they like it or not) come from their deepest within. Next, many people want to avoid responsibility - in terms of keeping the power over life - and so, they accuse anybody around them with no conscious will to hurt them. Last but not least, if I feel hurt, it's only because I actually let them hurt … Read how I did it…
