Well I told my best friend’s mom, and she didn’t seem to shocked… then again she’s bi… so now it’s two down… a million and one to go. But that’s better than all of them to tell. She told me to hold up on telling her daughter because Damie isn’t ready to hear it yet; I guess Damie’s real sister came out as a lesbian last month and she’s still in shock, and even if I say I’m bi she might freak out more, so I’m going to wait. I think I might tell my friend Zeke, he thinks I am, so I might as well confirm it. Lol. Maybe as I tell more of my friends it will be easier to come out to my parents and grandparents.
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The only person who is aware I’m bi is my best-friend whom I consider my sister. But she found out through anger mostly, she kept asking me what was wrong and why I looked as if my brain was about to malfunction from thinking so hard. I was actually thinking of how to tell her other than shouting “I’m bi okay? That’s not how I wanted you to find out but at least I’ve said it!”. I was fourteen(?) at the time so I’ve had three years to get over it and accept myself for who I am.
My parents have always told me that they will accept me for who I am no matter what as have my closest and dearest friends. But when it comes to my parents they tell me that people have to have sex before they know their sexuality. I’m a virgin (not that that information was really needed…) but I don’t need to have sex to know that I’m attracted to girls too, and my parent’s don’t get that. My friends Emmz, Krista, Brittany, and Pam, will accept me instantly- though Emmz has jokingly said that we would never stay in the same room again when I stay over.
But my friend Elle, and the rest of my family won’t be too thrilled. Back during my freshman year Emmz and I pulled a joke on Brittany saying that she and I were going out- Elle thought we were serious for a moment before we told her it was a joke and was going to tell the counselor to talk to us.
Elle, says that it’s against the bible, that it’s a sin and blah, blah, blah. But isn’t it also a sin to lie from one’s parents? (Telling them that we lost control of the car when in fact she was showing off?)
My Uncle David… okay nvm, he’d be cool with it he’s gay- seriously.
But my grandparents! I don’t even want to think about it! But I want to tell them but at the same time I’m scared to be disowned by them. They already have a thing against me being half Hispanic- even if they don’t want to admitted it. I don’t want them to be ashamed of me being bisexual as well- also I think that would literally send my GMaw Marsh, and Grandpa into cardiac arrest!
Is there an easy way to tell them? Or is it going to be as difficult as when I told my sister?
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