flirt more

One of the girls I work with informed me the other day that her cousin (who thinks hes a ladies man) told her that I scare him! He said I was mean, even though I’ve never said a cross word to him, hell I thought I was nice to the little snot! Anyway it keeps occuring to me that I give off the wrong signals. Im not a girly or affectionate person so I can come off a little cold and uninterested.

Im trying to work on being freindly and smiling more and making eye contact and sending off more flirty signals. I think the main problem I have is that most of the guys around here that are my age are either married, in a serious relationship, or they already have kids (which at 21 Im not all that interested in). sigh Im trying to keep my options open and make myself more approachable.

So my sister and I were at the movies and this guy approached me and asked where I went to high school. And asked when I graduated and I recognized him and I knew his name and told him and then I just kind of left it at that. Im not romantically interested in him but my goodness I couldve at least carried on an actual conversation with the poor guy! He was clearly trying to strike up a conversation and I just sort of shut the whole thing down…and the sad thing of it is it didnt even cross my mind at the time to try and keep the conversation going.

Im going to try and work on this. I already have a reputation as being a “ballbuster” since Im not all girly and flirty. I dont want to view as an airhead but I dont want people to think Im a btch either. *sigh Im going to try and work on this.