stop complaining

before I start a fight, make a complaint or nag my husband is this worth fighting over? Is this a high priority, life or death, safety concern or effect our life together? Or is this just an inconvenience of my time?

I have been doing really good at this lately. Bc I’ve been wanting to complain & unable to which really helps my tolerance level in return! I think complaining might just in turn create more complaining!

I added stop complaining to my list bc I complained at home too much. Well now that I’ve started this I have been complaining at work. So my ultimate goal is no complaining in general. It just creates negative energy.

I pre-ordered the Complaint Free book which I should get on/around October 16th. It looks to have really good advice in it! It is by the same Pastor who started the purple bracelet, 21 day complaint free movement. I’m very hopeful for the arrival of this book!

this is a very necessary thing for me to achieve to help my marriage. I don’t know how I’m going to be able to do this! One thing my therapist told me to do was to start journaling what I am thankful for each day. It could be huge or little but just list what I am thankful for. So I guess I will use these entries to do that.

Today I am thankful for my healthy, happy, beautiful son. I am grateful for having a house to live in. I am happy that I had the time today to exercise (on my list) & do a lot of housecleaning. I am glad it was cool enough to take my son on a walk twice today!