Found a cool article about this lol:
Celebrate Singlehood hmm.. so true! I guess :)
Another constructive thing to think about (while even your friends at other forums are coupled up!! OoO):
‘More important than finding the right person is being the right person.’ hm. :)
Aug 18, 2008, 01:14PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
Explore your dreams
- Yup, been doing that… (Kinda stopped seeing the last guy I dated because our dreams took us in very separate directions… hmm..)
- do something fun & quirky every month (possibly every week &/or every day!! lol)
- Surprise myself!! :)
- experiment with hairstyles. Wildly.
- Wear sexy & silly outfits lol
/Such that might give my Dad a heart attack :) lol Just kidding!!:))
- hmm.. :))
- rearrange furniture to one’s liking & have silly pictures on walls!! :))
- explore the fun & quirky ways of living single!!Thanks for the good ideas in this forum!!
- explore the role of single women in history!! :))
- Celebrate you – I quite like this one!! /Don’t know exactly how to do it, but I like it!! lol/
- browse cute pictures of online guys lol Did that today. Ssh!!
- be as feminine as I wish to be!! (so if it’s either skimpy outfits or Dad’s old jeans twice too big for me, so be it!!:))
- experiment with my images… (I’ve done that before, when I was single… & it was certainly easier in a big city, away from home… but one can come up with devious plans anyway, no? :))
- Discover your inner Diva (again;))
- (Re)Discover your inner Goth!! lol (Might be easier in a big city too!! lol)
lol I’m having fun with this already… Can you tell?:)
More ideas: Things to Do While You’re Single lol
Can you think of more? :)
Jun 21, 2008, 03:15PM PDT | 2 cheers | 0 comments
So the idea is… 1) To find all the things I dislike about myself & my life & learn to like ‘em &/or improve ‘em :)
Kinda like I already learnt to sorta embrace & like being HSP (highly sensitive), quirky, silly, strong-willed, have freckles & skinny figure & strange ideas etc.
Also to learn to LOVE being tall (from inside), being uhm… a ‘free spirit’ (financially & otherwise…), artsy & creative & inventive… ( my parents call it ‘lazy’ sometimes :))
2) To ‘get my life together’ :)
3) To find out what kind of dates I would actually LOVE going to… (so far I’m a bit terrified of dating, at the moment!!)
4) To plot out a plausible (& possibly enjoyable) life if I remain a happy spinster forever!!
/What would parents say? What would neighbourhood say? What would the lady with the cute puppy say? I mean, you get the picture:)/
Jun 21, 2008, 02:58PM PDT | 1 cheer | 0 comments
I really want to do this!!
Been thinking about it for a while & saw it as a goal here & it’s a really great goal!! :)
I mean, I’m single anyway, why not enjoy it? :)
I don’t feel to be in a position to date really at the time… health-wise & financially… Soo…
either be miserable about it & feel sorry for myself, or actually make a list of things I could do as a single gal that I couldn’t if married/in a relationship lol
hmm… :)
/Must think about the list a bit… :)/
Jun 21, 2008, 02:49PM PDT | 0 comments