Fall in love

I don’t think you can “fall in love”. Don’t get me wrong, I believe that there are connections between people that bring them together in a way they can’t explain, but love isn’t something that’s found. It’s not a penny that’s picked up off the street, it’s something that’s grown, and only by putting fourth some kind of effort can we produce anything prosperous.
I am not writing this to discourage any body; I just believe that all too often, we are searching for something that’s not really there. We might find that special connection with somebody, but as soon as we look closely at it, we don’t find anything, and so we move on because we didn’t put any time into it.

I have a friend who I realy want to ask out to the movies, but I don’t want her to think I’m weird for it. Do girls think differentley of a guy if asks her out on a date?

I feel like crap. the girl who I asked to home coming said no to me. I didn’t realy think it would be that big of a deal if she said no, but at the same time, I thought she would say yes. Now I feel like crap about it. Things are fine between us, but it doesn’t exactley do anything to boost your confidence. I don’t want to go by myself, yet I don’t want to go through the anxiety of asking another girl. I realy thought she’d say yes.

Home coming is coming up for my school, and I’m not sure if I should ask a certain girl, or just go stag. I kind of like the girl I want to ask, but at the same time, I’m not sure if she’d say yes or not. I want a date, but at the same time, I have no idea how things would turn out. I could use some advice.

I have a horrable habbit of falling for girls who are realy close freinds. I think its because I get to know them more because they are my freinds and that causes me to like them, but by that point, I feel like it would be far to awkward to ask to be anything more than freinds (if she turned me down). I’m not even sure if I want a relation ship right now, but I can’t help but fall for some one if I like them like that. I just don’t know what to do.