keep my virginity until I'm married

As I’m finding out that is the drawback of a healthy and compatible relationship with a strong marriage potential, as the farther things progress the easier it becomes to not complete this goal as time goes on.

Not that I ever really “gave up” on this goal just that it did not make sense keeping it as an active goal when I was not in a relationship, but now that I am in a relationship with somebody this is once again an active goal. So far so good and this time around I have a lot more confidence already that things are much more likely to result in marriage.

Its just that not doing this goal requires a relationship and I could never see myself being able to do a one night stand …

If you have this goal because you are Christian and want a good book to help things along I strongly recommend reading Real Sex the naked truth about chastity by Lauren F. Winner. She is very good in how she presents it in a way that both informs and motives while writing to inform you about the gray areas such as the whole “how far is too far before marriage” issue that the Bible fails to address in fully and unambiguously defined language.

To some extent from my Christian upbringing I have always believed that sex is off limits until marriage so this has always been a goal of mine. Although its one thing for a single person without any opportunity to do otherwise to say that its something that they want to and are going to do. However once a girlfriend (or boyfriend) enters into the picture, the opportunity to do otherwise enters into the pictures. Therefore because I’m no longer a single guy this now deserves to be added to my list of 43T and stay there till the wedding.