change my life

Talked to my parents about my “growing up” dilemma. My sister suggested I start this whole “change my life” process by staying at home (what) ???? She thinks too much change and taking on too much responsibility for someone who has experienced little in his life is only going to bring me down in the end. I starting thinking about It and she made good points – which lead me to talk to my parents, who I promised a week ago that I would be out of the house in a month. Mom agreed with my sister – to get a decent job and actually try at it, save up money, possibly buy some mode of transportation and maybe start taking classes again (I lost my license and dropped out of Comm College). Dad thinks that getting out the house and jumping into being an adult would be best since I am 21..I’ve technically been an adult for 4 years now.
Im still stuck – I want to do this right and succeed at something for once and not let myself or my parents down anymore. I know I need to make major changed but I don’t know where to start. Thanks Sis.

Whats a shame? Im a shame. Im 21, a community college drop out who still lives with his parents and has not had a job in almost a year. Ive recently had a few run ins with the law and my parents are paying my lawyer/court fees, which I feel guilty about. I had an accident and messed up my knee. Its just been a bad year. Im mixed up with “friends” who have lives just like mine, only they don’t want to change. BUT I DO. I decided to change everything!

I need to get my life in order and get all the bad people out and put all my stupid ways behind me, forever. I want to make my parents proud of me again.