do more things to make my wife's life easier

load the dishwasher at night
empty it in the morning
charge her phone.
do the grocery shopping.
keep the fridge spotless.
keep my bathroom clean.
take my shoes off.
clean the kitchen.
look after the garden.
make sure her favorite water is stocked.
pick up everything i see on the ground from the kids.
buy flowers at the market every week.

she would like…

curtains.
better lights.
time to swim.
a new floor.
go to church.
her own desk.

I am starting to always pick stuff up and put them away.

I guess evening out my mood swings would help.

I guess it would help her a lot if I was to be less argumentative.

I find her cell phone and charge it every night for her, same with the cordless phone. I load the dishwasher every night and empty it every morning as a habit now.

I am going with her to the grocecy, hardware, pharmacy, and furniture shop tomo. I really do this for her, I would rather watch some sports on tv.

I did all the weekly shopping with her this week. She is currently a stay-at-home-mom, so she does the weekly shopping. But this Saturday I went with her to the grocery store, drug store, do-it yourself center, etc. She thanked me all week because she felt it really helped her get things done. I will now try to do this every week. But I must say it is not my favorite activity.

I pick up after the kids as a habit now. I am trying to clean the kitchen as a habit now as well. this is going well.

She does not like looking after her car. She does not like filling the tank because she hates the smell. She never asks me to do it, but I know she lets it get as close as possible to empty before filling.

So I now gas up her car and take it to the car wash once per week. I also go over it with a vacuum.

I think she is going into shock.

I am going to start asking her more often what I can do to help her out. Both short / easy and long term abstact things.