wats the motive of a crticism…wil we ever find out??
sm1’s anger with us, or with themselves maybe. its their opinion and its not mine!
to learn smthing new, its not easy…and we shud give it the importance.
i dont wana go mad trying to correct myslef if i make sm1 else mad. atleast i dont want to be wise for sm other person’s sake :P :P :P
now to think more clearly.
a girl who is a psycho called me up today and i dint receive, unknowingly.
but i do wana ignore her. now she wil surely b criticising me. tat i’m rude cus i m always ignoring her. but i want to avoid her. i’m tired of making excuses. she is so persistent tat she never sees it – tat i dont like her. she is a drama queen and a negative person.
sometimes she is a savage beast, showering blames on me. her frustration with my coldness towards her. dus it count as criticism?
i dont wana pretend tat i m bothered abt her self-centred life.
i used to b her fren once.but never felt good about it.she has hurt me in many ways.n wen i tel her tat she just plays games….
i dono wat she really thinks about me-fren,enemy,toy!! this has to stop. i gave her enuf chances already.
stil i dont feel right about any of this. cos she feels she is right. it shakes me at times, just to see her confidence wen she has purposely done bad things to me. i cant figure it out. is it a psycho quality or a trick?
i’m getting tired of these secretive plans of her involving me. its just tat i neva thot ppl like this existed. but they do. n its not possible to treat them normally.
so i shudnt feel bad about isolating her.
i shud let her feel bad n even scream at me.
how to deal with psychos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!sm1 help me
i dont like criticism.bcus it is humiliating
if i accpet it then tat means i have degraded. n i feel low about myself.
n the one who criticised bcums superior.
i feel i have stained my reputation so much tat i dont deserve to have any respect.
i have felt the despair linger for years. it has killed my confidence.
its like everything ended on the day when sm1 was so moved by worthlessness of my actions, that she had to point it out publicly that i dont know even a small thing. which means i m a fool n wil always be. life of a fool is difficult. u cant even make proper decisions for urself.
can i take this criticism or not? it is hard for me to decide. my life was better when i dint think about it. so i dont see a valid point in accepting criticsm.