Be less shy

I hate when people comment on my shyness, like saying “you’re shy.” etc.
well duh! tell me something I don’t know.
It’s like saying to someone “you’re really confident” when they are and know it… but people zoom in on the negative (shy) but don’t say anything about the positive.

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why bother??

so I was reading this website, and it said to make random conversations with 100 people when you go about your routine… maybe I’ll try it… I usually say “Hi” when at the teller or cashier, hmm half the time they don’t respond with another “hi”... anyway I think I’ll try it

When I’m by myself or with friends, I’m ok. When I’m with relatives I’m soooooo quiet… ugh

Why is it so damn hard? I read books and internet advice but it’s not the same! DAMN