become more independent

Ive moved to a new city, started a new job, broke up with my partner, moved out and sorted myself out. That said i dont feel like im quite there yet! Getting there though !!

I honestly feel like ive been doing this , afterall you can only rely on yourself when you are by yourself . Now that im coupled im not letting that slide back to how it was either – i like the fact that i have capibilities to look after myself and enjoy the strength of making decisions and later basking in them .

Well ive just come out of a long relationship and after i cried my heart out and pondered my failure ( who am i kidding im still doing that bit ! ) i realised that really i need to grow as a person .

When me and the boy first met i was a very independent soul , a yougin but an independent youngin . As time went on i grew increasingly more dependent on my partner . Something that i only realised upon us breaking up .

So im hopeing this new beggining is going to start a new age of independence and self reliance and maybe just maybe ill come out better then when i went in .