put myself first

I finally at a place where I am comfortable about my decisions and choices concerning myself and others. I’ve made the changes that needed to be made, and I’m in a good space. I’m strong enough to handle the haters while moving forward with what’s best for me…

I have made the changes I needed to, and what I expected is happening. Some people I know are not happy with the change. Unfortunately, they don’t understand that I cannot always be there to help them if I don’t help myself first. I can’t worry about that right now. There are some people who are close to me that I have put aside for now, but they understand my plan of action and are supportive in what I’m doing. They know it’s for my own good

In changing my ways, I’ve been more productive and able to focus on things that needed my undivided attention in the first place. This has been a change for the better. During this time, I’ve also been able to uncover those who appeared to be in my corner, but who never were to begin with. This is also a good thing. It has allowed me to chose wisely in who I give my time to when I do.

I’m on my way…

I’m a giver by nature and tend to offer assistance to those close around me – friends, family, acquaintances, co-workers, etc. While there is nothing wrong with that, sometimes I forget about myself. I get to the stuff I need to eventually, but I find that sometimes I put those things off. I’m not saying I’m going to stop being helpful to others, even if they don’t give in return, but I need to focus on me first. How can I really be helpful to someone without having my own stuff in order? My needs and wants have to come first from now on. That means I will have to say “NO” more often when something is asked of me, but it doesn’t mean that I am going to forget about anyone else. I have to find a balance, and make sure I am the priority in all situations. Some people may not like it, because it will be a big change from what they are used to from me. But, I”m ready for this change. I hope they are too.