I need to learn that you can’t be hellbent on changing someone else’s attitude, feelings, behavior, etc. You don’t control anyone else; neither do they control you. I want to stop racking my brain trying to figure out what it was within me that prompted someone to treat me badly.
I’m starting to get to the point where I feel that I’m either going to work with people who hurt me and try to improve our relationship or (hopefully) I’ll see that they don’t care about having a relationship with me. I have actually started to make progress on letting go and moving on (a la “He’s Just Not That Into You”.
