flirt more

...And just as fast as the positive attention came, it dried up. I should have known better!! 19/20 women on dating sites are angry, jaded, overly self-centered, or just plain messed up. And that’s just what I attracted…again. So never mind that. I will build relationships in the real world, by getting involved with…whatever. Anything. But nothing online!

Well, I signed back up on a dating site. Yeah, I know, but it was actually done in connection with trying to complete one of other goals. When the (one) person I was looking for on there didn’t respond, I started looking around and saw some awful cute faces! So I told them so! :c)

Between that and a funny – though very brief, and without a picture – profile, I got a LOT of attention in a very short time. Feels nice. :c)

Come to think of it, there is a woman who flirts with me unabashedly! But she is not available – yes, I know this is kooky – so I don’t encourage it. It’s still nice to trade positive attention with each other, though, so I just limit it to appropriate compliments.

;c)

I’m doing this a lot more. Correction: I’m a lot more positive and outgoing in my interaction with people. Sometimes that comes out as flirtatiousness, most times not.

I’m thinking there are not that many women I really want to flirt with, anyway. I must be really picky!!! Either that, or I’ve finally learned not to pursue the wrong thing…

But the skills that make for good outgoingness naturally translate into flirtatiousness, so it’s all good! :c)