have an ongoing BDSM relationship with a local sub

I’m going to build some receivers for restraints into my renovations, ones that can easily and discreetly be left in place with generic covers after the restraints have been unscrewed. :c) Honestly, I should be earning money helping people build their little playpens… ;c)

My new GF is into this as well; has more experience than me, actually. But we both understand power exchange and have already brought it into our new relationship here and there. It makes me very attracted to her – and very happy! :c)

Tied my new gf up once; when it happens a few more times, it’ll graduate to “ongoing”. :c)

I live in a small city with nothing like a fetish club in sight, so it seems tough. After my last girlfriend, though, I’m through with unsatisfying relationships. So this has become a disturbingly high priority for me. Oh well, that also means the wave of motivation is cresting…

I’m going to just do whatever I can think of to make contact with someone. Nobody is going to just waltz into my life with lifestyle offers. It’s not the only part of my life that I need to implement new strategies, so this will help with my other goals.

Maybe I’ll check out fetish clubs in larger cities when I make the odd trip…